Letters on Clerical Manners and Habits: Addressed to a Student in the Theological Seminary, at Princeton, N. J. |
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... but of remarkably fascinating manners, carry all before them, in circles of
society, into which men of far higher qualifications, both intellectual and moral,
but defective in the attractions of manner, were scarcely able to obtain admittance
. A soft ...
... but of remarkably fascinating manners, carry all before them, in circles of
society, into which men of far higher qualifications, both intellectual and moral,
but defective in the attractions of manner, were scarcely able to obtain admittance
. A soft ...
Page 83
In no other way will you be able, when he has done, to answer his remarks in
such a manner as will be likely to be useful to him as well as worthy of yourself.
11. In conversation with an individual, look him in the face, and keep your eye ...
In no other way will you be able, when he has done, to answer his remarks in
such a manner as will be likely to be useful to him as well as worthy of yourself.
11. In conversation with an individual, look him in the face, and keep your eye ...
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Never dream that you will be able to convince, or by any means to effect an
alteration in the opinions of a man who has passed the age of three score, or
three score and ten. You do not dispute with such a one on equal terms. If his
opinions be ...
Never dream that you will be able to convince, or by any means to effect an
alteration in the opinions of a man who has passed the age of three score, or
three score and ten. You do not dispute with such a one on equal terms. If his
opinions be ...
Page 92
To be able to tell a seasonable, appropriate, short and pointed anecdote, now
and then, is certainly an accomplishment by no means to be despised, and very
proper to be indulged by a clergyman, as well as by any other man. But to
abound ...
To be able to tell a seasonable, appropriate, short and pointed anecdote, now
and then, is certainly an accomplishment by no means to be despised, and very
proper to be indulged by a clergyman, as well as by any other man. But to
abound ...
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... of people, are so powerful, that they are not always able to resist them. I will not
suppose any one who bears the sacred office, to be so unprincipled as to indulge
in the habit of indiscriminate flattery, which, as it must defeat its own purpose, ...
... of people, are so powerful, that they are not always able to resist them. I will not
suppose any one who bears the sacred office, to be so unprincipled as to indulge
in the habit of indiscriminate flattery, which, as it must defeat its own purpose, ...
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Page 205 - Memory and her siren daughters ; but by devout prayer to that Eternal Spirit who can enrich with all utterance and knowledge, and sends out his seraphim with the hallowed fire of his altar to touch and purify the lips of whom He pleases.
Page 304 - I am afraid my uncle will think himself justified by them on this occasion, when he asserts, that it is one of the most difficult things in the world to put a woman right, when she sets out wrong.
Page 34 - That gentleness therefore, which belongs to virtue, is to be carefully distinguished from the mean spirit of cowards, and the fawning assent of sycophants. It renounces no just right from fear. It gives up no important truth from flattery. It is indeed not only consistent with a firm mind, but it necessarily requires a manly spirit, and a fixed principle, in order to give it any real value.
Page 362 - I may say, that the production of this work and most of my other writings, is owing; viz. that the difference between rising at five and at seven o'clock in the morning, for the space of forty years, supposing a man to go to bed at the same hour at night, is nearly equivalent to the addition of ten years to a man's life...
Page 73 - Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.
Page 73 - A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver.
Page 74 - Talk often, but never long ; in that case, if you do not please, at least you are sure not to tire your hearers. Pay your own reckoning, but do not treat the whole company ; this being one of the very few cases in which people do not care to be treated, every one being fully convinced that he has wherewithal to pay.
Page 167 - The more conscientious preachers, the Bible men, they who talk about principle, and doing to others as you would that they should do unto you,— how could they fail to recognize him, by far the greatest preacher of them all, with the Bible in his life and in his acts, the embodiment of principle, who actually carried out the golden rule?
Page 245 - But if I tarry long, that thou mayest know how thou oughtest to behave thyself in the house of God, which is the church of the living God, the pillar and ground of the truth.
Page 71 - A man hath joy by the answer of his mouth ; and a word spoken in due season, how good is it,