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The Great Lover Playbook:

365 Sexual Tips and Techniques to Keep the Fires Burning All Year Long
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Penguin, Jan 13, 2005 - Family & Relationships - 336 pages
“This isn’t just a book for couples who want to have hot sex and intimacy all year long – it’s for those who want it for the rest of their lives.” --Violet Blue, senior book reviewer, Good Vibrations, San Francisco

THE HONEYMOON CAN LAST FOREVER!

From the author of three international bestsellers comes a sexual playbook for both men and women that goes a scintillating step further. If her other books were about seduction, The Great Lover Playbook is about keeping the sizzle alive in a relationship 365 days a year, whether you’ve been together four weeks or forty years. With one tip or technique for each day of the year, Lou provides refreshing perspectives on a variety of subjects, including:

* Uncovering the link between healthy relationships and a healthy sex life
* Building and maintaining an attitude towards sex that’s open and curious and committed to passion--forever
* Revealing what men and women really want on a day to day basis to keep the sexual energy alive
* Lou’s most popular techniques for hot foreplay, and pleasing your partner in various positions
* A section devoted to exploring and fulfilling your sexual fantasies, role playing, and how to use all sorts of toys
* Frequently asked questions, facts, and information to help you explore your individual sexuality

With step-by-step instructional drawings to enhance the techniques, and Lou’s signature style that combines frankness with a keen sense of humor, The Great Lover Playbook will inspire you to sustain the passion in your relationships, and keep that sense of seduction alive for the long term.

"The Great Lover Playbook is a handbook of tried and true ideas that people in long term committed relationships (and in new relationships) around the world can use to enhance their sensual and sexual relationships. Sex no longer has to be boring and routine." --Dr. Beverly Whipple, Ph.D., co-author of the international best-seller, The G Spot and Other Recent Discoveries About Human Sexuality

“Lou Paget is one of our savviest sex educators. She hands over invaluable tried and true secrets and sparks that great lovers use daily in their attitudes, behaviors, fantasies and techniques to reignite their home fires and keep them burning and committed.”--Eli Coleman, Ph.D. Professor and Director Program in Human Sexuality University of Minnesota Medical School
  

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Contents

1 FallinginLove Sex vs BeinginLove Sex
2 Sex Beyond Intercourse
4 Know There Is Always More to Know about Sex
7 Ladies Remember That Oral Sex Isnt Just for Dating
8 Let Him Be the Man
9 Stay Current
11 The Legacy of Trusting
13 Intellectual Freedom
204 Stimulate Your Sense of Smell
206 Seeing Is Believing
209 Touch Sensation
211 Tantalize Your Sense of Taste
213 Ladies Prepare the Bed for Your Man with Cool Crisp Sheets
216 Get to Know Her Essence
219 The Surprise Pleasures of Anal Penetration for Him
220 Help Her Catch the ATrain

15 Love vs Lust
17 Sowing Roots
19 A Calm Before the Storm
22 Are You Open to Enhancers?
24 Be Brave Enough to Share Your Innermost Fantasies
25 Be Willing to Change Something about Your Appearance to Suit Your Lovers Preference
27 Be Gentle When Airing a Disappointment or Hurt Caused by Your Partner
30 The Richness of Receiving
I Still Completely Dig Her
34 Touch Your Lovers Heart and Soul
35 Insisting on Being Right Can Kill Your Sex Life and Threaten Your Relationship
36 Be Proud of Each Other
39 Protect What Is Yours
40 Health Benefits of Frequent Sex
43 Build a Stone House
45 Beyond Orgasms
47 Live in a Culture of Appreciation
48 Nurture Those Values You Have in Common
49 Nurture Those Values Related to Family
51 Nurture Those Values Related to Work
52 Nurture Those Values Related to Money
54 Je Ne Sais Quoior I Just Cant Explain It
55 Seasonal Sex
57 Enlarge Your Expectationsfor Yourself Your Lover and Your Relationship
59 Let Passion and Sex Be a Reward for You As a Couple Not a Chore or Obligation
61 Make Lovemaking a Conscious Lifestyle Choice
64 Be Honest and Forgiving of Your Own Human Frailties
66 Understand That All Aspects of Your Relationship Affect Your Sexual Relationship
68 Be Open to TuneUps
71 Speak to Each Other As You Did When You First Met
73 Ladies Let Him Know Hes Irresistible
76 Ladies Acknowledge the Things He Does for You
78 Act Quickly to Spot and Fix a Problem
79 Learn from Your Mistakes
80 Be an Explorer
82 Seal Your Lips
83 Dont Compare Yourselves to Anyone Much Less Hollywood Idols
85 Romancing the Stone
86 Never Embarrass Each Other
89 Keep Talking
91 Be Tastefully JealousPossess Your Lover Culturally and Socially
93 Arguing Is Not Always a Bad Thing
94 Fight Fair or Learn How To
95 Are You Clean Enough?
96 Ask and You Shall Receive
99 Dont Be Susceptible to Instant Gratification
101 Treat Your Relationship Like It Is a Living Thing
103 Give Each Other Space
105 Listen to Your Little Voice
106 Be a Great Toucher
107 Turn Off the TV
108 No Kids in the Bed
110 Hug Each Other
112 Gentlemen Remember That Your Fingers and Hands Are a Wonderful Source of Pleasure for Your Lady
114 Create Important Moments and Make Memories
117 Allow Your Partner to Take Credit for Stories without Correction or Editing
118 Spend Time Alone
121 Is Your Lover One of Your Top Priorities?
124 Plan Outings
126 Take Care of Your Body
127 Encourage Your Lover to Take Care of His or Her Body
129 Take Care of Your Emotional and Mental Health
130 Remember to Speak Compliments Out Loud
132 Seek Out the Solace of Physical Contact
134 Cuddle First Thing in the Morning
138 Dont Keep a Running List of Who Did What to Whom
140 Ladies Know What Turns Him On
My Dear I Would Really Like a Slice of Pie Tonight
143 Gentlemen Know What Turns Her Off
144 Gentlemen Get Connected
147 Gentlemen Stay Connected During the Day
150 Create Your Own LoveLife Response Sheet
153 Window Dressing for Undressingfor Him
155 The Sock Drawerfor Him
157 Anatomy Lessonfor Her
161 Flirt at a Party and Leave Early
164 Fasting Leads to Sexual Feasting
167 Make It a Point to Find Out How Your Lover Likes to Be Kissed
169 Ladies Use His Body for Your Sexual Pleasure Again and Again
170 Set the Scene in Your Brain and Then Create the Opportunity
171 Learn How to Transform a Quiet Evening in Front of the TV into One That Is Not So Quiet
174 Ladies Rather Than Rush to Clean Up after Sex Whet Your Mans Primal Power and Leave Some of Him Inside of You
175 Gentlemen Move the Target on Her Pleasure
177 Dont Worry about Making a Mess
181 Blindfolded Sex
184 More Tips on BabyMaking Sex
185 The Heat of Pregnancy Sex
186 Explore MiddleoftheNight Sex
187 Practice ChildrenintheHouse Sex
188 Attempt FirstThingintheMorning Sex
191 Talk Dirty to Me
194 Sex in a Steam Room
198 Explore Erotic Books
199 Read the Kama Sutra
201 Feed Each Other
224 Place a Mirror in Your Bedroom
226 Ask to Be Spanked
The Magic of a Box of Sand
233 How to Use Lubricant and Why
236 Let Sex Be Fun
237 Ode to Bryan
238 It Takes Three
239 YKnot
240 Basket Weave
241 The Art of Giving Her Oral Pleasure
242 HeadOn or Profile?
244 For the More Delicate Flowers
247 Big Soft Wet and Warm
249 A Tip for Sucking Her
251 Avoid That Crink in Your Neck
254 The Ring and the Seal
255 Dont Forget to Mind the Stepchildren
257 The Ten Ways Women Can Be Stimulated to Achieve Orgasm
Cinematographers Rule
271 Anal PlayDebunking the Myths
273 Relax
276 2 Male Superior
277 3 Side by Side
278 4 Rear EntryAKA Doggie Style
279 5 SittingKneeling
280 6 Standing
Be Your Own Judge of Arousal
282 Mindful Breathing Techniques That Enhance Sexual Experience
284 The Deer Exercise for Men
285 The Washcloth Trick
286 Male Multiple Orgasms
287 Female Multiple Orgasms
289 The Instruments
Ladies Suck Him into You
291 Hip Roll Here We Come
292 Give Yourself and Your Partner Permission to Discuss Any Fantasy
293 Ask Your Partner for a Fantasy You Havent Been Able to Voice in the Past
295 Give Yourself Permission to Get into Character
298 Ménage à Trois
300 Indulge His DressUp Fantasy
302 The Prostitute and the Gentleman
304 Phone Sex
306 Innocent Schoolgirl
309 From Here to Eternity
312 How to Create Your Own Fantasies
313 Incorporate Toys to Expand Your Lovemaking Options
315 VibratorsExternalInternal
316 Bondage Light
317 Goodies That Vary the Senses
319 PVC Molded Toys
320 Anal Toys
321 Harnesses
323 The Pearl Necklace
324 How Do I Know If Shes Faking?
325 How Do I Tell My Lover That Ive Been Faking?
326 How Can I Have an Orgasm with Intercourse?
328 What Is the Difference between a Fantasy and a Fetish?
329 How Can I Introduce Fantasies into My Relationship?
330 How Can I Be Sure I Taste Okay for Oral Sex? Im Afraid for My Boyfriend to Go Down on Me Because I Think My Scent Will Turn Him Off ...
332 My Partner Has Trouble Remaining Erect While He Is Pleasuring Me What Can I Do?
335 Id Really Like to Have Anal Sex More Often How Can I Convince My GirlfriendBoyfriend to Do It? Also Why Are People So Interested in Anal...
336 If SheHe Wants to Use Toys What Does That Mean?
337 What Is the Normal Amount of Sex per Week? My Husband Wants It at Least Once a Day and Im Too Tired
340 Do All Women Ejaculate?
343 Will Using a Vibrator Desensitize Her to My Touch?
346 I Would Really Love to Have My Wife Swallow When She Gives Me Oral Sex How Should I Broach the Subject?
349 We Used to Have a Great Sex Life How Do We Get the Spark Back?
Dont Listen to Certain Stats
353 Alabama and Sex Toys
356 Smoking and Teenage Sex
359 Virtual Reality Sex
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An experienced sex educator and sexuality researcher, LOU PAGET started conducting her Sexuality Seminars nationwide in 1993. Lou's advice has appeared in many popular magazines, including "Glamour, Cosmopolitan, Redbook", and "Playboy".

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